One of my biggest pet peeves are insecure men. They feel as if they are not good enough and women have to feel the wrath. It drives me crazy to the up most fullest!!! Checking cell phones, and god forbid if you don't pick up the phone if you don't answer. Wanting to know your every move, not allowed to hang out friends and/or family, unable to go to functions, and if you were to do any of those things it's a fight. Your relationship becomes you trying to prove every minute of the day that you're not doing dirt. It seriously gets exhausting and then you forget why you even fell in love in the first place. You get treated as a child and it becomes an ongoing battle until somebody becomes the bigger person and calls it quits. How am I supposed to trust you if you don't even trust me?
What about the women that allow it to go on and on and on? Unfortunately I would have to put myself in that category because I have fallen victim to it. At some point in your life have you? You ask yourself...what the hell was I thinking? Why didn't I see these signs earlier? I'll tell you why, it's because that initial meet are like fireworks. You fall in love with the so-called 'representative' of that person hahaha. Then when it's safe for the 'representative' to leave, the truth comes out. Or maybe one person outgrows the other person leaving the guy unsure and confused therefore becoming insecure.
Just thought I expressed some pent up irritations. Not in the greatest mood today I guess.
